Cancer: Dating Advice for September
This season as the month matures towards fall, Cancer you are also growing forward when it comes to matters of love and dating. The theme of this season is confronting your own truths, to make yourself better equipped for the relationship or partner you want to manifest in your life.
Discuss Needs & Wants
On September 4th the planet of romance Venus will settle into the practical sign of Virgo. This energy promises a good time to have important conversations that can help progress things. Remember to stay open to any conversations that you may find intimidating as this can lead to a better outcome near the end of the month.
Be honest about expressing interest in someone, changing boundaries in your relationship, or turning casual dating into a serious commitment. The incoming Mercury Retrograde will then help you revisit your dynamics to test them out. Take your time in gauging your dating scene during the retrograde season as there may be understanding or delays to what you want.
You Get To Decide What Is Best
In fact, don’t take the delays to heart and get frustrated. Time away will allow any of your disillusioned visions to clear out. You will gain a new perspective. After the 29th you will find excitement and possibilities to explore coming up to you. Use this to decide on a personal brand of pleasure.
On September 22nd, use the energy of the autumn equinox to set a balance to your time focused on your well being whether it means snuggling in cosy at home with your date instead of going out every night. Remember you decide the balance of what you are comfortable with.
As the month moves forward, settle into your authentic self more and try to nourish yourself with people who understand you. Let yourself be seen and met. This form of self-care will set the foundation of your ideal romantic life.